| • | Most men think that they know everything and the worst part is that they act like they know everything. An instant put off for women |
| • | Most men who are in love with or attracted to women are often confused if the woman feels the same way about him. The best thing to do in such a case would be to let her know how you feel at the earliest. |
| • | It always pays to be you. If you are going to put on a show and try to do thing to make her like you, you have to understand that this will make her run. Women hate pretenders and wannabe’s. |
| • | You can never make a woman like you by pursuing her with gifts and promises of love and valor. This only outs women off all the more. |
| • | Don’t stifle her. If you went out on a date the previous night, don’t try calling her insistently from the minute you have dropped her off, asking her when the next date is going to be. This will just put her off. |
| • | Reserve gifts and flowers for special occasions and not every time you see her. |
| • | Men as opposed to women are more nervous and tense when it comes to the first date. Try and get to know her better before you actually take her out. |
| • | Often, the atmosphere is all wrong. Meet up at a neutral place, not so loud that you’d have to scream at each other in order to be heard and not so quiet that you are afraid to talk lest the silence is broken. |
| • | Don’t take her out dancing if you can’t dance and she can. She’ll probably end up dancing with someone else and you’ll spend the night with your drink. |
| • | Don’t take her out dancing if she can’t dance and you can. You will end up not dancing and feeling extremely foolish just sitting there and looking at everyone else around you having a good time. |
| • | Never double date on the first date. Especially if the other couple are already in a serious relationship. Things will just get uncomfortable for the both of you. |
| • | Treating a woman you just met like she is the love of your life, no matter how attractive or how pretty she is, is something you should NEVER do. |
| • | Always assume that you are going to do something that is going to irritate and bother her. Assume that you are going to screw up. Chances are that no matter how hard you try, you are going to end up doing any one of these. |
| • | Don’t lose your composure; it can be fatal if you do so. |
| • | Most guys don’t “get” women. |
| • | Pick up lines are the worst tactic you can resort to. You’ll probably end up feeling foolish or worse laughed at. They never work. |
| • | Don’t freak out if you are going to call and ask her for a date. If she says no, it is not the end of the world. You probably caught her at a bad time or she genuinely is busy, or not interested. |
| • | Don’t think you need to impress her all the time. Chances are that if she is really interested with you, she would have been impressed the first time you spoke to her. You don’t have to do anything more. |
| • | Women don’t date men who fall for them too quickly, so even if you have fallen in love with her after the first date, don’t show her that u have. |
| • | Instead of keeping all hopes pinned on getting one prospective date, keep your options open. |
| • | It helps to be funny. Women like men who can make her laugh. |
| • | Don’t always do the same routine, coffee, movies and dinner. Do something adventurous. Go shopping. Or if you both like trekking or mountain climbing, you could do that as well. |
| • | The key factor is to make her feel that the time she was with you virtually flew, and that’s not going to happen if you sit in a café for four hours at an end. |