| 1. | Being too much of a nice guy: This is a proven fact. Although women put up a front of dating good, decent guys, truth is she would love to date a bad boy. Try getting a woman to accept this. She never will. Women choose the men they do because they feel a powerful attraction for them. And guess what? Being too nice doesn’t make them feel that attraction. It sounds illogical but this really is true. |
| 2. | Trying to convince her to like you: You may be crazy about her. But she doesn’t seem to reciprocate. What do you do? You try and convince her using logic reasoning? Bad move. If a woman doesn’t feel it for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling? It won’t work, no matter how much you beg, plead, stalk or chase her. |
| 3. | Looking to her for approval or permission: In order to please his woman most men seek approval or permission from their woman to do things. This not only puts women off and annoys her; she is likely to think that you expect the same from her. And that would be something that she is not ready to do. |
| 4. | Trying to buy her affection: When you go overboard with your gifts and presents, what you are really saying is “I don’t think you like me for who I am, so I am trying to buy your love and affection”. Women see this as manipulation. |
| 5. | Telling her how you feel too early: You are with this really great girl and you feel you have hit the jackpot. She must be the prettiest of things to you but if you are going to keep telling her that, you are just going to annoy her. She has probably heard that a million times from a hundred other men. Telling her at the end of the first date that you “really really like her” is like telling her that you are the kind of guy who can’t wait to get into bed with her. |
| 6. | Not understanding how attraction works for women: Face it, attraction works differently for men and women. While men almost always are attracted by looks, women work on a totally different system. They are attracted by the way a man makes them feel rather than by his looks. |
| 7. | Thinking that you can win her over with money and looks: Most men think that women are only attracted to men who have the moolah and the looks. But the truth is that women are attracted to a man’s personality and not his wallet. If you use your body language and communication effectively, you can make a woman feel as attracted to you as you are to her. |
| 8. | Giving women COMPLETE control of your lives: Guys get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Wrong idea. Women are never attracted to men that they can walk all over. |
| 9. | Not knowing what to do in each type of situation with women: Women always know what you are thinking. They are TEN TIMES better at reading body language than men. So if you are out on a date and all you can think about is how to kiss her, chances are that she knows it. It is very important that you know how to go from one step to the next with a woman… right from the first meeting until the end. |
| 10. | NOT getting help: This is the biggest mistake of all. Not getting help. Guys feel weak and insecure if they ask for help. Don’t be afraid to ask your friends, guys or other girls for help. |